Monday, August 11, 2008

Another Good Dream



A couple of nights ago, I dreamt I was with Dear Hubby, my father-in-law Daddy Henry and a little baby! We wanted to go for a walk and we meandered by a river. After some time, we reached a door in the forest. Dear Hubby took out the door (yeah he didn't open it, he just grabbed it by the sides and pulled it out and set it aside), and next thing we knew, we were magically transported to a busy street market.

I told them I needed shoes before we could go any further. I was barefoot and I didn't want to walk through the market and get my feet dirty (as if it wasn't dirty enough from all that walking! Hahaha!). Luckily, I saw a lady selling slippers on the street. I slipped into a pair but discovered I didn't have any cash on me! To my relief, she said I could leave my cellphone charger (why would I bring a cellphone charger and not my wallet?!) with her and just pay for the slippers and pick up my cellphone charger when I was ready!

So we happily walked around the street market and I was surprised to see my friend Nina was there as well! She was standing on a bridge lined with cobblestones, surrounded by balloons and musicians, on the opposite side of the river so I waved hello and motioned for her to meet me on my side! She wouldn't budge though and told me to come and meet her instead! I was kind of upset that I had to walk across the bridge and leave DH, FIL and baby on their own. Nina and I then went inside a Fort Santiago like dungeon and she told me to get anything I want. "Anything I want of what?" I asked, the dungeon like setting creeping me out a bit. Then she pointed out the Ladurée pastries and macaroons laid out in front of us! In a flash, the dungeon lit up!



That's when I realized we were in Paris! So we happily munched on cakes and macaroons and I told her I was glad I met her on her side of the river! Hehehe! Suddenly we were back in our house and I worriedly told DH I forgot to pay the slippers lady and that my cellphone charger was still with her!

Before I could panic any further, I woke up!

First thing that popped into my head was "Thank goodness I don't owe the slippers lady any money!" I actually even felt relieved that my cellphone charger was safe at home with me, hahaha! But dreaming of Paris definitely put me in a good mood. The dream was so vivid and it felt so real. I tried to analyze what my dream meant and I figured it meant only good things right? Maybe something to do with food, culture or fashion because what else does a winding river, Ladurée, and cobblestoned street markets in Paris mean right?

Something close as it turned out! That weekend, I was invited to to go to the Brooklyn flea market by a lady who owns a showroom downtown, and very much a fashion industry insider! She wanted to look for antiques, and visit a friend of hers who had a booth there. So we went over to her friend, who was busily piling several pairs of barely used Giuseppe Zanotti heels and sandals, all at about $50-$70 a pair. We were wondering why she wanted to get rid of all her shoes, and apparently, she had just started with Miu Miu and well, office policy requires that they wear Miu Miu shoes exclusively! (Hmmm, that's an office policy I wouldn't exactly be forced to comply with, hahaha!) Minutes later, a lady was stuffing several pairs of her shoes into a Birkin bag! She practically bought the whole lot to resell in her high-end used goods/consignment shop somewhere in the city! Not a very common experience right?

A few days after, with the help RZ, I found myself making arrangements to go backstage to a show for S/S 09 Fashion Week this September! My new buddy Samantha also got me invites to watch some runway shows as well! And of course, I'll be going to the trade shows to see which clothes, shoes and accessories will hit the stores next spring/summer! Woohoo! Don't worry, I'll be sharing everything I discover soon!

(Photos from tanlee.com, amabilia.com)

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Style SOS: Waist and See! You'll Look Great!

Hey Tin!

I'm an avid follower of your blog since a friend of mine "introduced" it to me by way of a link. I need your very stylish opinion. Can an apple-shaped lady follow the trend nowadays of wearing a belt, be it the skinny ones or the wide ones? Which one would work best for someone less on the slender side and more on the I-just-gave-birth-a-couple-of-months-ago frame (think boobs, hips, thighs with a hint of a waist)? Would love to read your thoughts = would love to get tips to apply to self. =)

Just call me,

The Black Belter....;)


Thanks for your question The Black Belter! Here's a tip on creating the illusion of waists for apple shape body types from the popular UK TV show "How to Look Good Naked" and I would have to agree =)



For all you juicy apple shapes, teaming up a knit dress with a big belt pulls you in at the waist and gives you the illusion of curves. The short length of this knit dress draws the eyes to your pins and brightly coloured shoes gives extra attention to legs and calves.

As an added tip concerning maxi dresses which are currently "in" as well...



For all of my apple shapes, this summer dress is perfect for you. A big, bold exaggerated print will always make your body look smaller in comparison. A dress that is cut on the empire line will instantly make you look curvier, as it hugs you at the smallest part of your waist. This dress is great for that because it is embellished and keeps all of the attention just there.

But I'm not happy with just these two tips. Let's go on further! I've actually used the site's Style Consulation Feature (which all you dear readers can tailor fit to your own body type!) and here are the tips I got for dressing the alluring apple shape! Read on!

Naked Advice


Girl, your legs are amazing! So many women get caught up in their body shape that they forget to look at their actual bodies, and honey you have luscious limbs to die for! All we need to do now is add in a few sexy curves.

You may have found it difficult to add curves in the past, but here you will find a few simple tricks of the trade and key wardrobe pieces to flatter and flaunt your sexy shape. So dive in, my Alluring Apple, and discover the secrets to your own stunning style.


Body Doubles

Drew Barrymore


One of the ultimate ‘It’ girls in Hollywood, Drew has embraced her figure and developed a style that is all her own. Whether she is surfing with Cameron Diaz or walking up the red carpet, you can be sure to see her in flattering dresses, wide-leg trousers or sexy skirts that show off her curves and sexy legs.

Kate Winslet


A true English rose and one of the most beautiful women in the world, Kate has perfected the red carpet look to flatter her amazing apple figure. With empire lines a staple, and demonstrating how the perfect chignon reveals an elegant neck, Kate really is the epitome of the Alluring Apple.

Coats
The cover-up of choice for you, my gorgeous gal, is simply a classic straight cut, single-breasted coat that finishes at the knee. This shape is going to elongate and slim that torso but still show off those sexy calves and ankles. Choose the coat in a darker, block colour for an added slimming effect: flattering shades are plum, chocolate or navy.

Top Tip: Still after more curves? Look for hip pockets and a higher waistband, as both of these details will add curves, or add a cute broach to your collar to draw the eye up.

Jackets
Here’s where we’re really going to start adding in those sexy curves. Structured jackets are the key to maintaining this shape.

Always choose a single-breasted jacket, as double-breasted is going to add bulk where you really don’t want it.

Look for jackets that button up underneath the chest; this will nip you in at your smallest point, and give the illusion of a tiny waist. The jacket should finish just under your hipbone, and keep your eye out for hip pockets again: these babies will be the key to adding that little extra curve to your torso.

Top Tip: Colour is crucial, but so is fabric. Keep to matt-looking fabrics and certainly nothing metallic or sparkly – you don’t want to look like you’ve been attacked by a Christmas tree, do you?

Tops
There are thousands of tops out there to suit you! It’s all about finding the right shape and detail. A little bit of exposure may sound risqué, but sweet cheeks, this is going to do wonders for your figure. Don’t be shy! Flash that décolletage in V-neck and scoop neck tops, which will break up your torso and create a slimmer shape.

Show off those arms too: cap sleeves, halter-necks or strapless styles will flash that skin in a subtly sexy way. Three-quarter-length sleeves will also add to the waist illusion on cold winter days.

Something a little more structured will do wonders for your shape, or look for tops that have a higher waistband so the material glides over your stomach. Tops should all finish just below the hipbone to elongate your body.

Top Tip: Wear a statement necklace or earrings to draw the eye higher up, but never even consider wearing horizontal stripes.

Dresses
Empire line sounds grand and on you, my beauty, it truly will be. The drop from just below your chest will lengthen your body and glide effortlessly over the rest of your figure, whilst drawing attention to your fabulous bosom, neck and arms.

Another key shape to look out for is the timeless classic, the wrap dress. The deep V will break up the torso whilst adding the illusion of curves. Here we catch a glimpse of that sexy décolletage while marvelling at the beauty of your gazelle-like limbs.

Top Tip: Printed fabrics will show your wild side, and avoid the dreaded straight silhouette that block colours can give.

Trousers
Here you can look truly elegant in flowy, wide-leg trousers that will balance out your torso and slim your waist whilst adding timeless sophistication. A mid-rise yet curved waistband will not only help to make your legs look like they go on forever, but will also add those secret extra curves to your silhouette.

Top Tip: A crease down the front of the leg will brilliantly divide your leg in half vertically; whilst a pointy-toe shoe peeking out from under the trousers will make those legs look never-ending.

Jeans
Once you’ve found those perfect trousers, look for them in denim too as this style is perfect for your jean needs.

Mid-rise with a straight leg is what you want but make sure that you look out for a dark wash as this is much more flattering.

A wide curved waistband will banish those builder’s bum moments forever, whilst adding the impression of a bootylicious behind.

Top Tip: High-set back pockets will give that bottom a lift and lengthen those legs.

Skirts
The perfect opportunity for you to get those legs out, flash those ankles and send the boys wild!

Choosing the perfect skirt is all about balancing out your torso and making sure that your top half flows effortlessly to your bottom half. A-line or softly-flared skirts are going to look the best, with length playing an important part, as balance is key. Knee-length will not only create this balance, but also make you look demure as too short is a no-no.

Have fun with skirts: colour, pattern, pockets, embroidery and sequins will all add interest to the area and draw the eye away from your middle. Not many girls can get away with such glamour on their booty, but honey, yours is ripe for a little embellishment!

Top Tip: Asymmetric and handkerchief hemlines are brilliant at breaking up the line of the body, and add a little flirty movement to your wiggle as you walk.

Accessories Again, the validation you've been waiting for! ;-)
Belts, belts and yet more belts. They really are the key to cinching in that silhouette and adding a curve where there isn’t one.

With so many different ones available, belts not only show off that sexy waist, but also your flare for accessorising. Place at your natural waistline to cinch in that top or if you are a little broader, place the belt just underneath your chest. This is the smallest part of your torso and will give you curves that those skinny girls can only dream of.

Top Tip: Wear heels! Even if it’s just a simple kitten heel, the added lift will elongate your legs and lengthen that torso.

Now that we've answered your question and armed you with tons of tips...Go and have fun with the latest in fashion Ms. Black Belter! And keep on checking the "How to Look Good Naked" site for frequent updates on how to wear the trends that flatter your shape! =)

Saturday, August 09, 2008

Style SOS: Boots Clues



Hi! MFO!

My name is Cherie, I'm from Vancouver! And and I am an avid reader of your blog! Congratulations on your wedding! Your pictures made me reminisce about my grade school days in MTQ!!! Anyhoo, I just bought the Hunter Lady N boot in beige and I have no idea how to wear it! Especially for the fall! Can you give me some tips? i don't want to look too old wearing them as i am only 17...Thank you so much for reading my email!


Thanks too for your email Cherie! Good move on those Hunter wellies! Since you got yourself a pretty much neutral colored pair of boots, I think your wellies will go with anything be it shorts, leggings, jeans and dresses! In terms of color, you shouldn't be afraid to bust out the brights as with this girl who boldly paid her green wellies with red skinny pants!



Here are some outfits to check out for inspiration! Don't worry too much about clashing prints (how about plaids, leopard print and floral!) & colors (deep burgundy, plum, and forest green tights instead of black, and anything tomato red are gonna be big for F/W 08-09!), and mixing textures (I'm feeling tweeds, wool, corduroy, denim and colored tights with your wellies for fall) and all that! The worst that can happen is that you'll look like an aristocratic English eccentric (which I am quite inspired with at the moment), and there is nothing wrong with that, at all! You're still young and you can get away with anything! ;-)





For fall, you can just wear a pair of tights under your shorts and dresses, and wear a coat with volume to balance out the chunkiness of the boots!


Don't forget to play with prints and/or colors to keep it young!


Enjoy your Hunter wellies Cherie! Oh! And you might consider getting fleece welly socks too for an added burst of warmth and color! =)



(Photos from thesartorialist, people.com, blog.freepeople.com, fartguide.blogspot.com, garden4less.co.uk)

Wednesday, August 06, 2008

Follow Your Passion

If you are soul searching, finding your way in life, or building strength to live your dream...

"I didn't really know what I wanted to do, but...I knew the woman I wanted to become." - Diane von Furstenberg



In the words of artist James de la Vega, "Become Your Dream."

Pinoy Pride

I find it cool that Vanessa Hudgens takes pride in being part Filipino! (click on image to enlarge and check out lower right portion!)


As seen on the September 2008 issue of Teen Vogue!
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