Showing posts with label Goyard. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Goyard. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Berry Goes to Bryant Park



Berry and I went to the Philippine Consulate yesterday to take care of our passports and we asked my sister Trina to come along. Of course, we had to show Berry The Pond at Bryant Park. The Park looks totally transformed during the winter, although it is very pretty in the summer too!





Thing is though, we just came from a little bit of window shopping and so she was asleep. As is usually the case when we're out in the shops. Grandma says Berry is well trained because she never gets fussy inside stores. I think she loves being in the stores and understands that Mommy needs all the time to go through the racks, hahaha. What a good baby!

Monday, May 11, 2009

Dancing Queen...Only 34 Weeks

Dear Hubby and I had lunch at Burger Joint last Saturday and as I got our order at the counter, the three guys behind it greeted me with a bright and jolly, "Happy Mother's Day!"

Before I could say "Thanks!", the lady cashier punctured the happy atmosphere with a sharp, "She don't look like no mother!", as if to admonish her three clueless colleagues, knowing full well that women who are mistaken for moms, won't take a Happy Mother's Day greeting too kindly! Hahaha!



But the men pointed out to her, "Look, she's having a baby!" and as she peered over the cash register, she saw Berry inside my belly and burst out a laugh, saying, "Oh, Happy Mother's Day to you!"

Yeah, Berry looks like she's about to pop soon! Just look at that belly!



Now that Berry's on her 8th month, I've been having more trouble sleeping at night due to very frequent pee breaks, and loud burps throughout the night, thanks to heartburn and gassiness. Coach Berry has been training me very well with the waking up every 2 hours exercise. Been waddling now too, with me having to support my belly when we go for long walks. Here I am caught adjusting my belly support band, hahaha!



I can actually give birth in 3-6 weeks, because Berry will be developed enough to come out on her 37th week. Although of course, I'm torn between being ok to have her come early because we are just so excited to see her; and having her arrive as scheduled, because my in-laws and my parents have all scheduled their trips around her coming on time! Let's see when Berry decides she's ready to meet us all!

As far as I know, she's having a great time right now inside my tummy because this entire weekend, she seemed to be enjoying turning 34 weeks! The whole of Saturday, she was just so hyper, starting early in the morning when Dear Hubby, Berry and I went to SoHo for our meeting with the very interesting subject of another story I am writing for The Radar! The whole afternoon, except for about 2 hours, she was hyper because she was guest of honor of a surprise baby shower (more about that in my next post!) planned meticulously by Daddy and my girl friends, and I think she reveled in hearing so many people chatting around her. By 2 am, she was still up, moving around my tummy as if she was dancing. So I sang Dancing Queen to her...

You can dance, you can jive, having the time of your life
See that girl, watch that scene, dig in the dancing queen

Friday night and the lights are low
Looking out for the place to go
Where they play the right music, getting in the swing
You come in to look for a king
Anybody could be that guy
Night is young and the musics high
With a bit of rock music, everything is fine
Youre in the mood for a dance
And when you get the chance...

You are the dancing queen, young and sweet, only 34 WEEKS
Dancing queen, feel the beat from the tambourine
You can dance, you can jive, having the time of your life
See that girl, watch that scene, dig in the dancing queen


Abba! Berry didn't stop moving around until I finished singing that last phrase above to her! Even if her Daddy was telling her to go to sleep na! How funny!

(Photos by Daddy Harvey)

Sunday, March 08, 2009

Q&A Time! Breaking Into Fashion + What Bag to Buy?



Hi Tin! I've been reading your blog since 2007. Your posts have inspired me to no end. What action plans would you recommend to people like me wanting to penetrate the fashion industry (aside fr the obvious-i.e. taking fashion classes, internships)? I've heard not-so-nice things about the fashion industry. I'm actually scared to make a move. Fashion schools here in PI cost a lot! Thanks!

Hi! Thanks for your question! You're on the right track by asking. It's a baby step, but the fact that you are considering this career move is worth something. You know what, I can totally get where you are coming from. I've taken the circuitous route to get to where I am (fashion blogger/writer and I can't say I am totally immersed in the industry as of yet) and what I can tell you is, once you get straight with yourself by affirming that this is where you want to be, and start making an effort to really see what is out there for you, you'll find that things just fall into place.

Ok, that was a little vague. Let's put it this way, the first step is always the hardest. You don't want to invest time and money doing something that might not be what you want in the end. But the thing I learned is, you'll never know until you try. And the fashion industry is such a huge industry that being in it per se is not the end all and be all. You still have to find your niche.

There are actually dozens of careers in fashion - there's planning and merchandising, retailing, online retailing, warehouse logistics, fashion design, technical design, accessories design, pattern making, cutting, sewing, showroom sales, events, PR, publishing, journalism, styling, photography, model management, trend spotting, forecasting, and so on. You can work for a designer, a retailer, a luxury house, a fashion forecasting/consulting firm, a PR firm, a modeling agency, a photography studio, a publishing firm, a manufacturing company, a showroom, a warehouse etc and you would still be technically working in fashion. So you have to find out where you want to be in exactly. Do you want to be on the creative side? The technical/production side? The business/management side? The marketing and publicity side? And you will never know until you dip your toes into the fashion pond.

The easiest and most cost-effective way to get into fashion is to just be curious and ask people in the industry what they are doing, what it's like, and from there, figure out if this is really where you want to be in. Start by asking friends, relatives, friends of friends/relatives in the industry (Manila is a small place, you are bound to know someone who is in the industry) and just keep on being inquisitive. Hearing their accounts first hand will dispel or corroborate the myth that fashion is a cut throat industry. But to be honest, while there are horror stories, I've met so many people in the industry, both back in Manila and here in New York who are nothing but the sweetest, most approachable, amazing, creative and fun people that I have ever met! Some have become very good friends in fact! So don't be too scared. I think if people see that you are sincere and you have a good heart, and that you just really have that passion for fashion, they will be more than happy to help you out and watch out for you. But yeah, you can't all be sugar and spice in this industry too. You also have to have tough skin and be prepared to bitch it out when it's time to draw the talons out. Because the industry attracts a lot of flakes, posers and dodos too, heehee! But generally, the decent, self-assured ones treat you the way you want to be treated and at the same time, if you are nice and sincere, then people are nice and sincere back, it's that simple.

Now once you've decided that you are made to be in the industry, then start taking classes, even just short courses that will pique your interest. From there, you can take further classes to dig deeper into the subject, or move on to another short course to help you figure out exactly where you want to focus in. Consider it this way too, when you sign up for a class, you are also signing up to a valuable network of people, whether they be classmates, teachers or alumni who can help you break into the industry eventually. I have been taking classes at FIT, and I find that my teachers here are more than happy to answer questions and emails from students and will give you the exposure and opportunity to get your hands "dirty". If not for my teacher at FIT who handles/organizes volunteers for Fashion Week, I would not have had the chance to help out backstage and be part of the runway shows, albeit from the sidelines, haha. Volunteers of course don't get paid, but that was quite an experience that was worth giving up one day to wake up early in the morning and run all over the city for.

While obvious, internships are really a great way to break into the industry. It's practically a rite of passage, a valuable one, especially since you get to see how things are from the bottom (which is important once you start working your way up). Internships are generally unpaid, but the opportunity to see how things are done is what you should be aiming for at this point. It's a sacrifice in a way, but think of it this way, if you are enjoying what you are doing, money hardly matters. And from what I've seen, when people enjoy and love what they do, the money eventually follows!

So don't hesitate! If you want to be in fashion, take that first step now, no matter how difficult and daunting it seems to be! Once you start taking that step, you'll see that the next steps become easier and opportunities just open up for you one after the other. Next thing you know, you are in the industry and you are loving every minute of it!

Good luck and keep me posted on how your fashion adventure goes! ;)

I need help! I'm contemplating which bag to buy...a damier speedy or a goyard st. louis. need your advice!

thanks :)


Hi there dear reader! I see you are a in a bit of a dilemma! Should you get this?


Or this?


Hmmmm, I actually don't know how to answer this. Because it really depends on your lifestyle. Instead, I will just list out my top of mind pros and cons for each bag, and give you a couple of follow-up questions to help you come up with a decision!

Damier Speedy PROS
- Classic
- Cheaper than a St. Louis PM (Damier Speedy 30 is $700 vs. a St. Louis PM that retails at $940)
- You can use this for work and on weekends
- Secure and zippered so no worries about your stuff spilling out
- You can even lock it for extra protection (although it would be such a hassle to really lock-up your bag, the lock and keys are really just an homage/throwback to the origins of LV bags as traveling bags)
- Still looks great after many years

St. Louis PROS
- Classic
- Lightweight
- Great for traveling
- Can be worn over the shoulder or carried on the crook of your arm
- Spacious
- Comes in a variety of colors
- May be personalized with stripes, initials, etc.
- Has a detachable pouch

Damier Speedy CONS
- Has to be hand held or carried on the crook of your arm
- LV is quite an ubiquitous label
- the bag itself is not made of leather but of coated canvas

St. Louis CONS
- Too casual for work (if you work in a corporate setting)
- Although you can bring it to work, it functions more as a tote/secondary bag to carry extra stuff
- More expensive than a Damier Speedy
- It's a very "open" bag, no means to zip it up or tie it at the sides to keep your stuff protected
- the bag itself is not made of leather but of coated hemp canvas
- Tends to look "battered" when overused (although this can also be quite charming)

Now remember, these are just the pros and cons off the top of my head. There could be more I haven't really thought of. But as a rule, whenever I am contemplating on a purchase of a high ticket item, these are the things I ask myself...

1. Is it within my budget?
2. Will I be able to pass this on to my kid, sister, niece, etc. / Is this sturdy? A classic?
3. Do I own something similar to this item? If No, then proceed. If yes, then I might not need it.
4. Will it go with most of my stuff?
5. How often will I use it? If I can use it as often as I can, then it's worth it (Cost Per Wear). If I can only use it occasionally, then
I'd rather go for something more practical and "value for money".
6. Will this item fit into my lifestyle? (ie, I carry a lot of stuff with me all the time, so I'll need a tote vs. I can live with just my wallet, keys and make-up kit in my bag, so I'll get the Speedy)
7. Do I want this because it's trendy/everyone has it? (Don't get it, save your money for something that calls out your name!) or do I want it because I appreciate the craftsmanship/quality of the item? (I will love this for life!)
8. Has this item been on my mind for days/weeks/months? If you've forgotten about it, you most likely can live without it.

If this still doesn't help, let me put it this way. Either way, you won't go wrong! These are both great picks and I don't think you'll experience buyer's remorse with whatever you end up with! ;)

(Photo credit: eluxury.com, goyard.com)
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